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124: Crowding out negativity with love - a simple everyday practice
In this episode, I guide you through a simple but powerful practice that has been transforming my own mindset and helping me feel more appreciation, joy, and connection in everyday life.
Rather than focusing on...
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123. Leaking, orgasms & pussy strength: A pelvic floor Q&A
In this Q&A episode, I answer a listener's question: what does peeing when you sneeze tell you about your sexual health?
We dive into the connection between the pelvic floor, pleasure, orgasms, core strength, and...
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122: From hot preggo life to cold postpartum: finding your way back to desire
In this Q&A episode, I answer a listener’s question about moving from a hot, connected sex life during pregnancy to feeling completely disconnected from desire in postpartum.
I talk about why this shift is so...
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121: We bought a house + a story about my marriage, patience, trust, and surrender
In this episode, I share the personal big news: we bought a house.
I talk about why having a home with a garden has meant so much to me, how long and stressful the process has been, and what it brought up along the...
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120: Why you are sexually disconnected (and how to come back to yourself)
In this episode, I unpack what it really means to feel sexually disconnected and disempowered as a woman. I explore why so many women feel numb, shut down, resentful, bored, or distant from their sexuality – and why...
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119: Not in the mood for sex? Let’s talk alternatives
In this episode, I explore the nuance of sexual intimacy in long-term relationships and what it really means to meet each other in desire, even when you’re not fully “in the mood.” I share the deeper context behind a...
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118: rest and relaxation – essential for well being and PLEASURE
In this episode, I explore the art of relaxation and why so many women struggle to truly rest. I share my personal journey of moving out of “go-go girl mode,” how quitting caffeine changed my relationship with my...
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117: Choosing family in a culture of “having it all”
In this episode, I share a deeply personal reflection on turning 40, living in the in-between without a home, and what it has taught me about identity, nervous system regulation, and belonging. I talk about choosing...
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116: Q&A - fantasy, self-touch, and body signals
In this episode, I answer three honest and intimate questions from my community about mental arousal and fantasy, shame or disgust around self-touch, and burning or sensitivity at the vaginal entrance. We explore why...
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115: life updates + my season of expansion
In this episode, I drop in with an honest life update after a long pause from the podcast. I share what the past months have really been like behind the scenes—sleep deprivation, sickness, moving homes during the...
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114: Q&A - arousal drop after Clit Os, disgust when touching yourself, and getting back into intimacy after 10 months
In this episode, I answer three powerful questions from my community about orgasms, disgust in self-touch, and how to find your way back to sex after a long dry spell in a relationship. We explore the refractory...
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113: Are you a teen or a woman in the bedroom?
In this episode, I unpack a powerful question from a listener who shared that while she’s a fully capable adult woman in every area of life (career, motherhood, friendship, creativity), but her sexuality still feels...
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