111: Flirting, feeling confident, masculine women, sexual growth in a relationship

In this episode, I answer my student's question about embracing your sensuality and navigating the shift within a committed partnership. I explore how to handle new attention from others, soften old “ice queen” protection patterns, and invite your partner into this new chapter without pressure or fear. I also share pieces of my own awakening and offer mindset tools, scripts, and practices to help you feel grounded, desired, and fully in your feminine energy.

In this episode, I talk about:

• Why your sensual awakening changes how people respond to you

• Old insecurities, “ice queen” energy, and stepping into embodied confidence

• Attention as an exchange — and why you don’t owe anyone anything

• Masculine vs. feminine energy in dating and long-term relationships

• Becoming more approachable by shifting into your feminine

• How to receive compliments and decline flirtation with grace

• Inviting your husband into your erotic growth (without pressure)

• Navigating light, innocent flirtation while staying in integrity

• Rethinking monogamy, fantasy, and relationship agreements

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